We’d choose something that gives you a different sensation or fixes a niggle with the toy you already love. More power is only an upgrade if that’s what you’re missing.
If a bullet is your favourite, try a wand massager for a broader vibrating head and a longer handle to hold. For a change from vibration, consider an air-pulse toy: it uses pulses of air around the clitoris rather than a vibrating tip pressed against it. Our air-pulse and vibrator comparison helps you choose between them.
Love the sensation but find the buttons fiddly? Look for separate increase and decrease buttons, so you can turn it down without cycling through every setting. If you’d like your partner to take the controls, a toy with a remote is worth a look. Our couples-toy guide explains the options.
